Monday, March 10, 2014

I'm back!

Hi there!
After months, finally I'm back to the blog world.. yeayyy ^^

It's been a while and I'm not who I was before. I'm changing.
Though life sometimes aint fair to me, but at least I can be a better person day by day.
Hopefully from now on I can share many things with you regularly.


Wednesday, September 11, 2013

Treasures Woman's Conference 2013


It was coincidentally happened to me, with God's grace, that I attended church at JPCC and saw the advertisement about this event that held just for women. Being unshakable women, the tagline, really make me curious about what they offered to the women in this world full of uncertainty. And finally I decided to join this two-days event on September 5-6, 2013.

Day one was filled with great priests from Australia and USA. They are Jules A'Belle and Lisa Bevere! What a blissful preach they gave. I learned to be strong as lioness but soft-hearted in the same time. Besides, I took single-hood class that gave me different point of view of being single and how to fill this worth-the-wait moments.

I learned to stand still in the storm in day two. Without difficulties, life will never filled with victory. Don't be afraid 'cause God is with you all the time. The next session was self-grooming that brought by Mia Rajagukguk. How she presented about being fearless and fabulous really blew me away. She told us that God never see our look, instead He sees our heart. She also changed the way I see myself, to be beautiful inside out; It means being balance, being self confident without pride, being well-groomed without being obsessed without our looks and being content without being greedy.
I am blessed indeed to be here, as a part of unshakable women. 

Have faith and do not fear because God has plans for you beyond your wildest dream!     

Tuesday, September 10, 2013

Thesis Defense!


I thank God for officially earned master of management, specifically in Human Resource field, the major that I never dreamed about and I really fall in love with it. 
Thank God for giving me such a great experience here. All the tears and hard work now are paid off. Thank you for my family and friends who always support me no matter what happened. When you do your best and you really try, the results are excellent and you are the living proof of that.

Welcome freedom! Welcome bittersweet life :)

Monday, July 8, 2013

Thesis, how dare you!

I'm a bit overwhelmed of doing thesis. How dare you stealing my peaceful moments! Sigh. Please, help! =.=

Sunday, July 7, 2013

Lady in waiting


In the middle of my little time of finishing my thesis, I read a book from my friend titled 'Lady in Waiting: becoming God's best while waiting for Mr. Right' which gives me a new point of view of being single. Instead of constanly searching for the right man, I have to prepare myself to be the right woman while waiting. We are reminded to be God's best by studying the Biblical character, Ruth. I learnt how to become a lady of purity, faith, contentment, patience, and more as I pursue a personal and intimate relationship with Jesus. 

Women nowadays are getting worried to find their Mr. Right and tending to lower their standards just because of loneliness and age problems. They tend to be insecure, underestimate, and not respect theirselves and it seems they praise the men more than they should praise God. That men become the center of their life! With their expectations that the men will fulfill their happiness and hunger of love and their thoughts that marriage is the answer that life would be like fairy tale, full of flowers and love words everyday, that is exactly the root of heartache starts grow. Why? Because we can not depend our happines on someone or something! Otherwise, It is better to take refuge in The Lord than to trust in humans (Psalms 118:8).

In this book, I learn to be the best for God with developing myself to become 'His bride': not too hurry to be in vain relationship, not wasting my time wishing for a dream man, using my single time wisely, not prioritizing my self-interest, serving others while patiently waiting for the right one, improving the quality of myself, and finally seeking and choosing Boas' characteristics (to put the needs of others above his own needs, to be delighted in the relationship with Christ, to maintain  good relationship with others,  to not leaped ahead of God's timing, defend the right, to accomplish all the responsibles that God gave toward him, to understand the importance of affections and emotions and to not compromise with the bads) when looking for a life partner and not only seeking him merely from the physic, money or the outwards. "The Lord does not look at the things people look at. People look at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart." (1 Samuel 16:7b).

I consciously know that the consequences of being not to be patience in waiting are devastation of your future life and family, e.g get divorce eventually, there is no longer emotions between each other though they life in the same roof, some will ruin their children's future, loneliness and burdens that will hurt you so bad till you can't breath. Note this, you will not only marry a husband but you will also choose a father for your children!!

It's not easy, I know it, to give all things to God, to give control to Him toward our life when we sometimes tempted to step forward while God still says wait. You have to surrender and have faith that He will give all things in the right time. But, I believe it will be worth-waiting eventually. This book is very suggested to those who are longing for being loved sincerely and finally, l discover that only a relationship with Heavenly Bridgegroom will satisfy!

Friday, June 28, 2013

Writing Notes by hand is helping indeed!

I find it is very useful when writing by hands. Well, computers are great but writing by hands is the best device for studying or even to expres your feelings. When I do research for the benefit of writing notes, I find this 4 advantages from the

1. You Learn More!

Perhaps the most important reason for writing your notes as opposed to typing them is that you actually learn more of what you've written down. This is due to something called the "Reticular Activating System" which is more active when writing than when typing.

2. It's Easier to Pay Attention

Whilst computers are great, they're also great tools for procrastination and distraction (haha!). You can't check your facebook, look at movie news or download music on a pad of paper, and when you're trying to study and learn things, that's a great "feature."

3. It's Brain Exercise

You won't just learn more, you'll actually sharper your "brain power" (otherwise known as your intelligence.) Writing has been proven to increase intelligence and the continuation of writing (such as in letters or in a journal) as one gets older keeps a brain sharp.

4. It's More Creative!

Developing a penmanship style and organizing your notes doesn't have to be a chore. It's an enjoyable thing to do when you take your time. Creating hand written notes can be both stimulating intellectually, and enjoyable from a creative point of view, whereas typing notes up on a computer is more like to feel like a job.

While everyone has their preferences for how they study and the best ways to learn, these four reasons to start writing your notes by hand should hopefully give you an excuse to at least try it out, "the old fashioned way."