Monday, January 30, 2012

The Engaged Idealist

I saw my friend took this personality test on Ipersonic and I tried mine to make sure its accuracy and below are the results. Unpredictably, I just realized what kind of person I am.

Engaged Idealists like you are extroverted and helpful. Others find you to be very congenial and inspiring - especially as you are always willing to see the best in the other person. Your humour, your energy and your optimism attract other people. Engaged Idealists are very good at communicating and are good at convincing and firing on others. That is why it is a matter of course that you often take over the leading role in groups. Your personality type often produces very charismatic persons.


Engaged Idealists have an unusually strong ability to empathise. You are tolerant and generous towards others; you sometimes tend to idealise your friends. You always try to suit everybody and want your relationships to be harmonious and satisfactory. To achieve this, you are prepared to invest a great deal and to put your requirements last. As Engaged Idealists are very considerate, there is the danger of you sacrificing and overexerting yourself for others. In your job, you therefore have to be very careful not to develop a burnout syndrome.


As an Engaged Idealist you are one of the extroverted personality types. You enjoy working in a colorfully diverse group of people who interest and inspire you. Working in a “secluded room” is not your thing. You enjoy emphasizing with those around you and soon everybody senses the high priority and importance people represent to you. Therefore a team-oriented project is just right for you.


Your insight into human nature, your feel for your colleague’s and/or subordinate’s positive sides and potentials and your preparedness to encourage and support everyone around you to the best of your ability quickly brings them closer to you. People like to ask you for advice, appreciate your caring ways and appreciate to be taken under your wings. Within your means you are always available to others who need you because you yourself enjoy the ultimate gratification of being able to help others to make the best of themselves and to be successful mediating conflicts among people. 


You are well suited to be an executive: It is difficult to resist your charisma, your enthusiasm and your ability to excite and motivate others. Authoritarian management attitudes are not your thing; it is your way to convince others of a project’s reason and significance who will then look forward to follow you voluntarily. You place a lot of value on creating the willingness to cooperate in others and with your gift to motivate that usually comes easy to you. You do not enjoy conflicts, need harmony and invest lots of energy and time in a good working climate and a harmonic relationship of your colleagues among each other.

Sunday, January 29, 2012

to smokers, watch this!


It is so painful when you know how cruel the business is, gradually destroy my country, Indonesia. 
For smokers, you are more precious than the business. Watch, learn and decide!

Saturday, January 28, 2012

be careful when you drive!

Deep condolence for victims in Tugu Tani, Jakarta, Indonesia.
So, here's the story.
There was a car accident  in Tugu Tani, Jakarta, Indonesia and killed 9 pedestrians and many people injured.


The public in Indonesia is being shocked by a shocking tragedy involving a car and 9 people dead. the auto accident happened because the car was driven fast and hit a bus stop in its attempt to avoid passers by. Because of the car hitting lots of people waiting for the bus, about 9 people were killed and many others were injured.


Suspected of this accident is Apriani, who drove the car. The night before the accident, she and her friends involved in booze and also drug activities. And when the police found her, she couldn't show her driver license or a valid vehicle registration and only of an expired registration document.


So guys, be careful when you drive! Do not use drugs or drink booze when and before driving cause it will trouble your self. 

getting married.. are you ready yet?



First of all, I wanna say happy Sunday to you.. and now I wanna share a little about what happened to me recently. This month, I was get nonstop wedding invitation, either from my friends or kinship. Well, actually it's not a big problem for me but again, parents always ask, 

WHEN WILL YOUR TURN, MEL?? errr --"



at Rike's wedding
I'm still 24, single and free. It doesn't mean I'm not thinking for finding future "perfect" husband and having my own happy family. Yes, I do. And, actually I'm not afraid of falling in love but I'm afraid of being hurted. It's traumatic of being cheated and played but now I have to move on and already opened my heart to the newcomers :p
Besides, I want to do many things before bound with somebody; learning and studying more, establishing my own company or music school, doing everything that I love, travelling to many countries, buying stuffs that I want without thinking to save for family needs.. well, I do saving but spending the money for having fun is important to make you keep younger!


My parents said you can do those things while you already married. 
Yeah, I know, mom, but let God do His works in me. Its worth to wait for God's time. Do not have to worry! :)


at Ria's wedding with my cousins and sister. L to R: Indah, me, Ruth, Cynthia

at Anne's wedding. L to R: Fera, Pioma, Cola, me, Ruth


Tuesday, January 24, 2012

respect the difference, please..

everyone has their own secret and when he/she tells you about it, please respect not to tell others.
One of my friend has uniqueness that I can not tell here but for him, it is so embarassing if everyone knows about his difference. Because me and my friends curious about it, we try to know more about it, and finally he only tells me about everything. Until one day, he told me that one of my friends spilled the beans :'(

Please people, respect the difference. It is not a funny thing that you can laugh at. Imagine if you in the position that you can not do anything or change the condition and now everyone stares at you and laughs.
Its hurt. Totally.

Thursday, January 19, 2012

pursue my dreams



Well, actually, we all have our own dreams and it must be SOMETHING HUGE! 
That's why it is called dreams..
I also have my own dreams and unfortunately can not say in this public area.
Okay, sometimes it's not easy to pursue your dreams. Moreover, I have my parents do not agree with some parts of it.
I actually know exactly what I wanna do in the future. I have my role models in my environment.
I do like music, fashion, business, entrepreneurship and so on. The things that I just mentioned are things that I really like and wanna do as my career. 
But, is it too arrogant to limited your talents that given by God?
One person said to me that I have to focus on something that I want to achieve. And please don't get me wrong if I want to study many things. Basically, I love to learn and study.
I can mix things with different perspective to make it greater if I have knowledge, right??
So people, please do not judge others with their mindset of how they pursue their dreams.
We'll see whose gonna smile eventually :)




Thursday, January 12, 2012

For sale: Japan underbranch piano

Hi guys, now I'm selling Japan underbranch piano, e.g Kawai, Yamaha etc.
You can take a look at my photos. If you wanna buy, just leave a comment or call +6289653663940 for more info.

Open reseller. Indonesia only. 



Our piano gallery

Yamaha U2 Rp. 23.000.000


Kawai baby grand piano. Price nego (call)


kawai KG-1 Ebony Polish Grand Piano. Price nego (call)
Yamaha U1 Rp. 22.000.000

Yamaha U3 Rp 28.000.000
Yamaha UX Rp. 33.000.000

Back side Yamaha UX


Inside Yamaha UX



Sunday, January 8, 2012

2011

Well, I just wanna flash black what happened in 2011..
here it goes


2011


January: accepted at Grant Thornton Public Accountant Firm as a junior auditor! :))
February: job duty to Semarang and Surabaya from Perhutani (my client) only two of us; me and Thata!! Can you imagine? we were new in auditing field.. err.. but still enjoy it
March: my birthday! Celebrated with my work mates XD
April: job duty to Madiun
May: resigned caused of healthy problems :(
June: went to Medan to visit my BF. Got new job at PT Astra Otoparts as an accountant.
July: my dad's, mom's and brother's birthday! Thank God for the new age
August: went to Jogja with my girls (ubur2 family :D)
September: went to Singapore with my buddies; Rex and Adrian. met Vanny there :)
October: felt so tired as an accountant. cant stand with overtime, caughing everyday :(
November: had family trip to Hongkong, Shenzhen, Macau :))))
December: Broke up with my bf after 3 years relationship cause he cheated on me. It was very depressing but now I can move on. It's Christmas, right?? Remeber the meaning of Christmas.. Forgive and forget..


I wonder what will happen in 2012. I bet it will more exciting!!!! >.<

New year. new hopes. new resolutions





Hi, Everyone!!! I'm finally writing this blog in this fabolous January 2012! and never too late to say Happy new year to all of you!
We do have many expectations for the year 2012 and we may face many obstacles ahead but do not have to worry. When we allowed to step forward, it means God has grant us security, wealth and way out for us to face this year. 
Though life is not that easy.
Forget all the bad things that happened in the past year and do as best as you can in the year forward.
Have faith. Have hopes. Stay strong! Keep fighting!!!!